Je ne sais pas

Last year I first dated a guy who thought I was too fat.  He made sure I was aware of exactly how much more attractive thinner girls were to him.  My hair was too short, my thighs too fat, my skin too pale, etc. 

Then, I dated a man who preferred curvy women.  My breasts were too small, my ass not round enough. 

Unsurprisingly I felt diminutive when around either of them. 

Sometimes I wonder if it is actually possible to date a guy and not be made to feel like shit.